• VERB
• Posted: 2010-06-11 21:22:05 By PatG
• Hi Loretta- Enjoyed you recent (6/9) presentation to the Women's Information Network in Quincy, MA.
  If I understood correctly, you have been through 2 marriages. What part, if any, did VERB come into play with these marriages that they did not last? You did not indicate why these marriages ended (God hoping it was not a death).
  My husband and I have been togther for 30 years and have seen marriages disolve for any of the VERB's.
  V= Victim- We have never played the victim in our relationship, nor have we ever targeted anyone in our sphere as a victim.
  E= Entitlement- What is this? And what is there to be entitled to? Is he a King or am I a Queen?
  R= Rescue= Forget about Prince Charming. Take a fumbling ang bumbling good intentions Shrek any day (including the belching and farting).
  B= Blame- is to be lame, just an excuse to transfer your shortcommings to someone else.
  Again, I enjoyed the presentation.
  Thanks,
  PatG

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